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Sunday, December 19, 2010

Underprivileged kids in Colton go shopping

Underprivileged kids in Colton go shopping
Tuesday, December 14, 2010


  
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COLTON, Calif. (KABC) -- Generous donations made a special day of shopping possible for underprivileged children in the Colton area.

The call came just after 9 a.m. Tuesday. Police and firefighters responded to the Colton Walmart store with lights and sirens. The call was not for a fire, but rather, for a shopping spree. Each Colton firefighter paired up with an underprivileged child from the area. Each was given a crisp $100 bill, which came from donations made throughout the community.

"This is what Christmas is all about," said one firefighter.

The lists had much more on them than just toys. Some of the children chose sweaters, socks and shoes. Bradley Valentine, 9, added socks and batteries to his cart. He said his father wanted him to take the time to buy what he wanted for Christmas.

"Because we ain't really going to get nothing for Christmas, so he said I got to spend it on me," said Valentine.

The Colton Fire Department has been making Christmas come true for underprivileged children for more than 15 years, and it's become more and more difficult as the economy's gone downhill.

"The families are hurting, and the donations are hurting, so we can't help the families. It just snowballs and so we're trying our best to raise funds," said firefighter Tom Debellis.

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Tuesday, November 23, 2010

Narcotics Anonymous and Alcoholics Anonymous

Addiction is no laughing matter, it destroys lives and families...




211 - dial this number for United Way Charities in the area. Multiple resources at one place.



Riverside Rape Crisis Center

Sunday, October 31, 2010

USAonWatch is the Face of the National Neighborhood Watch Program




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Our nation is built on the strength of our citizens. Every day, we encounter situations calling upon us to be the eyes and ears of law enforcement. Not only does the Neighborhood Watch Program allow citizens to help in the fight against crime, it is also an opportunity for communities to bond through service. 

Friday, October 29, 2010

WARNING VOTER FRAUD ALERT

November 3, 2010 at 11:28 am (City of Moreno Valley)
WARNING VOTER FRAUD ALERT
Now that the election is over, I strongly urge all political candidates running in Moreno Valley to stand up for the people and the electoral process.  Actually show you care about the democratic process, in regulations and laws by challenging not only the voting results, but the legitimacy of the candidates as well.  The citizens of Moreno Valley should not have their right to participate in a fair, legal election stripped away by those who use deception, and fraudulent means to seek an elected position which they are not legally entitled to.
These actions not only disenfranchise the voters, but cause financial hardship on an already cash strapped city, creates doubt in the election process, and brings embarrassment upon the City of Moreno Valley.
It is for these reasons stated above that I urge all candidates to band together, and join their resources in a collective way to stand side by side and challenge the election results and process this year, don’t sit idly by and allow a possible victory for the people to be taken away by illegal activity.  

...I could not agree more. The current, everpresent, self proclaimed "Developer" who has been pushing the city council and school board around to suit his financial well being, has managed to weasel in his some of his own chronies. I question the hugh swell in last minute voters and money that developed around these candidates

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Thursday, October 28, 2010

RIGHT HERE, RIGHT NOW

"Hell has its own special level for those who sit by idly in times of great crisis." Robert Kennedy quoting from Dantes Inferno.  



Saturday, August 21, 2010

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Indigent services program has more than doubled

Last month, the number of residents qualifying for the county's medically indigent services program had more than doubled that of the preceding four years. Nearly 16,650 residents had qualified for the program by the end of June, up from a little more than 8,100 people who had qualified in June 2006.
Someone said that they saw David Sanchez there holding out a tin can. We will keep you posted.
Riverside and San Bernardino counties are among the lowest-ranked in money for mandated health care to poor.

Tuesday, August 10, 2010

Ask Parenthesis man - I'm the Boss ?

Dear Parenthesis man,

My almost-9-year-old and I butt heads a lot. She acts like she is the boss and I feel like I am always yelling at her. How do I get her off her pedestal? How do I let her know I'm the boss -- not her?


 I'm the Boss ?


Dear Boss,


"You're not the boss of me!" was the theme song on a popular TV show a few years ago, and it struck a chord with every parent who's had a child proclaim their position as ruler of the roost. Kids easily become little emperors or empresses, and once they've tasted power, they aren't easily talked out of wanting more.


So, restoring your role as The One In Charge isn't a matter of telling your daughter that she can't call the shots, or negotiating with her for the position of boss. It's about calmly and confidently owning that role.


Being what I call the "captain of the ship" in a child's life starts with not being needy. Kids smell fear and desperation in their parents. If you approach your daughter saying, "I need you to start your homework," you've essentially told her exactly how to frustrate you: All she has to do is refuse to do her homework.


Once you've revealed that you need a child to do something and she refuses, you've backed yourself into a corner. Either you give in -- which teaches her that she really is the boss -- or you resort to bribes and threats. Even though you may end up getting your daughter to do what you've demanded, you will have done so from a place of weakness, not strength.


Instead, when you want your daughter to do something, tell her it's time to do it and then, walk away as if you're sure she's going to do what you've asked. "Time for homework, sweetheart. Let me know if you need any help -- I'll be in the kitchen, starting dinner." Act as though you assume she's going to do what you asked. Don't hover!


No doubt, your daughter will probably test you and avoid starting her homework. That's okay. Simply check back in after a few minutes and calmly remind her, "It's time for homework, honey."


The less you come across as needy, the more you can speak from quiet authority. If she says she doesn't want to do it, don't argue; simply acknowledge that you can see she's having a good time playing and it's hard to do something that's not much fun.


Most of all, don't escalate the situation by explaining why she has to do her homework or firing off threats or punishments. Speak clearly, and don't engage in battles or power struggles.


While I don't expect things to change overnight, I can assure you from having worked with thousands of parents and children that the less you come across as needing your daughter to do what you ask, the more genuine authority you'll have.


I often say, "He who is most attached to a particular outcome has the least amount of power." Keep this in mind as you parent, and you'll help your daughter recognize that you really are in charge, which ultimately will give her the comfort that comes from knowing she has a competent Captain of the ship at the helm.
Yours in parenting support,
Parenthesis man


Parentheses man, Praetorian HLG, is a licensed  driver and School Counselor. He holds a MA in School counseling, PPS crendential, . his new book,Parenting Without Guns and Ammo," is now available from the bottom  of your near by dumpster.

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Thursday, August 5, 2010

Madden apologizes … again | Commissioner Roger Goodell

    Welcome To USAonWatch.Org Our nation is built on the strength of our citizens. Every day, we encounter situations calling upon us to be the eyes and ears of law enforcement. Not only does neighborhood watch allow citizens to help in the fight against crime, it is also an opportunity for communities to bond through service. The Neighborhood Watch Program draws upon the compassion of average citizens, asking them to lend their neighbors a hand. USAonWatch is the portal for training to assist law enforcement agencies and their communities, technical assistance, resource documents, watch stories, networking, and assistance to the 
Since 1972, the USAonWatch-Neighborhood Watch Program (housed within the National Sheriffs’ Association) has worked to unite law enforcement agencies, private organizations, and individual citizens in a nation-wide effort to reduce crime and improve local communities. The success of the program has established Neighborhood Watch as the nation’s premier crime prevention and community mobilization program. Visible signs of the program are seen throughout American on street signs, window decals, community block parties and service projects.

USAonWatch® empowers citizens to become active in community efforts through participation in Neighborhood Watch groups. The goal of this site is to provide information, technical support and resources to local law enforcement agencies and citizens.

Saturday, July 17, 2010

Help us find Norma Lopez

POSSIBLE KIDNAP VICTIM

Police need help finding Norma Lopez, 17, of Moreno Valley, who went missing on Thursday, July 15. Authorities fear she may have been kidnapped.
Police need help finding Norma Lopez, 17,   
 MAuthorities in Riverside County are searching for a missing 17-year-old Moreno Valley girl who may have been kidnapped.Investigators say family members became concerned when Norma Lopez did not return home from summer school on Thursday, 7/15
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Witnesses told police they saw a newer-model green SUV speeding away from the area. Detectives said Lopez may have been taken against her will. 
Lopez attended a summer class between 8 a.m. and 10 a.m. at Valley View High School, which is only one mile away from her house in the 27300 block of Cottonwood Ave. 
She had planned to meet her younger sister and a friend at about 10 a.m. at her house, but police said the teen never arrived. 
Officers talked to local business owners and searched the hillsides around the Cottonwood Avenue address, but found no sign of her. 
Lopez is about 5 feet, 7 inches tall and weighs about 110 pounds. She was last seen wearing a black-and-white horizontal-striped sleeveless shirt and black jeans. The FBI and the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children joined the Moreno Valley Police Dept. in the investigation.
Police released phone numbers for anyone who may have information related to Norma's disappearance:

A police hotline for this case has been established: (877) 242-4345.
Riverside County Sheriff's Dept. Dispatch Center: (951) 776-1099.
Moreno Valley Police Dept.: (951) 247-8700
Anyone with information is asked to contact the Moreno Valley Police Department at (951) 247-8700 or the Riverside County Dispatch Center at (951) 776-1099

Tuesday, July 13, 2010

Privacy Rights Clearinghouse

Tuesday, July 6, 2010

You can't say

You can't say that civilization don't advance, however, for in every war they kill you in a new way.



                                                          Will Rogers, 11/04/1879 - 08/15/1935

Tuesday, June 8, 2010

Demi Moore: Child Sex Trafficking Is a Dirty Secret 

We Need to Confront



Earlier this year, actress Demi Moore and her husband, Ashton Kutcher, started the DNA (The Demi and Ashton) Foundation, which aims to eliminate child slavery worldwide. Shortly afterward, as part of the Pepsi Refresh Celebrity Challenge, she and Kevin Bacon battled to see who could get more fans to vote for them and their philanthropic causes. Moore triumphed, and as a result, the New York City-based nonprofit organization GEMS (Girls Educational and Mentoring Services) won a $250,000 grant from Pepsi. GEMS plans to use the funds to train 10 former victims to serve as outreach workers who will assist and rescue underage girls currently in the sex industry. PARADE spoke to Moore about why this issue is so important to her and what she would like Americans to know about sex trafficking.
PARADE: How did you first become interested in this topic?
MOORE: Ashton and I got involved after seeing a TV special about sex trafficking in Cambodia around two years ago. Some of the girls in it were so young, like 5, 6, 7, 8, 9 years old. We felt we couldn’t live in the world where that is allowed. As we started to delve into and educate ourselves on the issue, we were overwhelmed and horrified to discover how prevalent trafficking is. As we looked around, we saw we had a chance to contribute and make a difference. Twenty-seven million people are enslaved today around the world. We’ve tried to scale back our efforts to what connected us in the first place, which was children and sex slaves. Yet our ultimate goal is to participate in bringing an end to slavery as a whole. I don’t think any parent can watch that special and see these tiny little girls going up to men, girls who have Barbie lunch boxes. It’s just wrong, and I think it’s something we can all agree on. It needs to be stopped. It’s a matter of getting in there and getting the support to end it.
We were shocked by how large the commercial sex industry is in America. The average age that a girl enters the industry is 12 to 14. As a mother, I have to say, “Let’s put this in perspective, this is someone’s sister, someone’s daughter. It’s a little girl.” There’s a general misperception that people have about the girls in the industry, that these girls are choosing it. Enslavement is not just physical but also mental manipulation. We’re talking about people preying upon the most vulnerable among us—our children. I’ve met foreign victims who were brought in from Mexico to the United States. Ashton and I have plans to travel and connect with more. I’ve had the opportunity to meet [Cambodian activist] Somaly Mam quite a few times.
Q: What is your connection to GEMS?
A: We went to GEMS offices and met quite a few of these girls and heard their stories. One of them was 11, another was 13, one had been “guerilla” pimped by a trafficker who was traveling the country with underage girls. He was caught by the FBI. What was so moving is that in our country, except in the state of New York where the Safe Harbor Act was passed and it treats underage girls as victims of rape as opposed to teen prostitutes, the law tends to criminalize these girls. Meanwhile, the johns and pimps often get minimal penalties. A pimp can make $150,000 to $200,000 a year from one girl. How can we shift the focus from the criminalization of these girls and place a greater focus on who is creating the demand? The men who are soliciting them look at these girls as having chosen the industry even though they’re 12 or 20. The average john is a 30-year-old married man with no criminal record. We’d like to humanize the victims and also bring names and faces to the johns. I think if we had greater accountability, we’d have a chance of reducing the demand for young prostitutes.
Q: How did you hear about GEMS?
A: Once you start to open the door, you find the organizations and the NGOs that are making a difference, and we heard about Rachel Lloyd and GEMS. It’s a survivor-led organization and the largest organization for victims that exists in the U.S. I had a chance to see what they’re trying to do, and their model is one that can be replicated in the country. Right now, they have a limited outreach. GEMS makes such a huge difference, transforming the girls they reach into positive and productive individuals who give back. Yet they struggle to have the funds to operate.
GEMS is trying to assist juveniles who are extracted from sex industry. They’re helping them getting high-school diplomas if they don’t have them and going to college. I love the fact that GEMS also trains the girls it rescues from sex trafficking to serve as outreach workers in their communities. One outreach worker can reach 100 girls. The former victims have a level of understanding in reaching out to girls who are not open and under control of pimps, and they’re able to break through that. They often go into the juvenile-justice system to find girls to help, because where do you put them, except for justice system or foster care?
Q: Are you concerned with working against sex trafficking on a domestic or on a worldwide level?
A: We have a worldwide interest in sex trafficking, but for now we want to ground it domestically. We went down with the Department of Homeland Security to the border at San Diego and met some victims who had the enormous courage to testify against their trafficker. The girls were 19 and 20, and they’d been smuggled over the border. Trafficking was a family business, and this man’s mother and brother were also involved. The trafficker told these girls he loved them and said, “If you love me, you will do this for me.”
We want to put the issue of sex trafficking at the top of people’s lists of concerns and not just part of the list. One of the things we’re trying to do is to work on changing policy in the states where trafficking is not a felony. We approached the Governor of Massachusetts and asked him why human trafficking there is not a felony under state law there. That’s also true in Hawaii, Alabama, Ohio, South Dakota, West Virginia, Wyoming, and Washington, D.C, I think.
Q: What would you like PARADE readers to do?
A: People should see “Playground.” It’s a wonderful documentary about children in America who are victims of sex slavery. In general, I’d like to ask them to educate themselves about the issue. Awareness is the beginning of creating great change. Our society needs to identify slavery and call it what it is and look at it in the U.S. People should also find out, what laws and programs do you have place in your state to protect girls? Is there a task force? The issue is understaffed and underfunded.
When one person is enslaved, we’re all enslaved. We’ve been tweeting to the Senators on the foreign relations committee to ask them to support change. Sex trafficking is this dirty little secret, but I think people are now prepared to hear about it. It’s our obligation to come together and end slavery. Before I end this interview, I want to thank Pepsi. Not only did it support us with our issue, the company provided an opportunity for us in the form of the Pepsi Refresh Celebrity Challenge to go out and get the public to vote on our idea. We won a huge grant for GEMS. Pepsi is affecting change and helping us reach an incredible audience.
source:http://www.parade.com/news/what-america-cares-about/featured/100509-demi-moore-interview.html
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